June 2013
hello male followers
how do i convince boys to like me this is for science
I love you. Honestly. You make my life better. You make me forget all the crap in my world that causes me to break. I love you for that. Don't go away. Please.
You’re such a strong, lovely person. Thank you so much for your kind words, if you ever need to chat or talk about anything, feel free to come to me. Do I know you personally? Heaps and heaps of love, stay strong xxx
hi :)the holidays has already started and I ran out of ideas on how to spend it wisely but also fun. Do you know any? Plus how was your day and how are you feeling today? much love x
Holidays are the best! Heres a few ideas that I normally love doing:
- Catching up for coffee with my friends
- Going for a long walk early in the morning
- Decorating my room
- Having a picnic with a group of friends
- Go on to the Frankie Magazine website and look at all the different, cool little crafts you can make in the previous issues!
- Bring a container to the beach an collect sea shells
- Have a sleepover with your best friend - dance, sing, be crazy.
- Buy a sketch book and just fill it with quirky little drawings.
- Go to a market near you and buy a bunch of flowers or anything cute you like the look of!
- Go to a book shop and pick a book you wouldn’t normally read.
There are so many things you can do! Those are just some off the top of my head right now. And my day has been so nice thank you, I’m feeling very happy and excited for this weekend!! x
Oh I would also luv to go to Coachella!! man that would be an exiting day of indulging myself listening to great music. I love of monster and men hopefully I can see them live one day at Coachella :) what's your fav band?
I know, wouldn’t it be absolutely incredible! And Of Monsters and Men are really great, I love heaps of bands, I honestly have a hard time picking 10 let alone one favourite ahah xxx
weheeeee i am sagittarian too x
aw yay! what date is your birthday? xxx
aw its a shame you don't have kik :( but do you mind if i asked what your instagram is ?? i absolutely love your blog, and i agree with the other anon, don't ever delete your posts because they are such great advice ! have a lovely night xxxx
I’m more than happy to give my instagram out if people come off anonymous - like a really don’t mind! then I can also get to know you and most likely follow you guys back! And wow thank you so much, thats so kind of you to say. Have a beautiful night yourself ! x
Are you a Taurus? (:
I’m not! Im a Sagittarius xx
do you have kik or something?
I don’t :( to be honest.. I dont even know what kik is !
I have instagram if any of you guys want to follow me there? x
You seriously don't know how beautiful you are on the inside and outside x
honestly, thank you so much. That is such a lovely thing to say, you too are such a kind and beautiful person. I hope you’ve had a wonderful day x
yes, please keep your recent advices :') i plan on screenshotting them and reading them whenever im a little down and need some help. thank you so much, beautiful! xxx im sure im not the only one you've really helped (:
oh that is so lovely, it honestly makes me so happy to hear that! Of course I’ll keep them up, hope you’ve had a wonderful day. Thanks for all your kind words xxx
never ever delete your messages they are amazing, you give such amazing advice!! love youxoxox
aw! I never delete them, I just put them on private usually so that my blog isn’t filled up with tex. Would you like me to keep these ones up though?
heaps and heaps of love to you. Thanks so much for all your kind words! xxxx
My best friend was going to Europe next year and somehow I got dragged into going with her, but I really want to wait another year to mature and get ready for it and save (if we go next year I can't get a car and have to work full time night and day job to save) and I don't know how to pull out now with out ruining out friendship, but I really don't want to go to Europe next year it will be to hard and I'd rather relax in my gap year and slowly save up the money for a trip the year after... Help
Honestly, there is no reason to put yourself under that much stress. Even when you are in Europe in the back of your mind youre just going to be stressing, and you want to enjoy your time over there not have it filled with worry! I would just say to your friend, “Hey look, I really dont think I have enough money yet to go to europe and be able to spend money on food, accomodation and shopping. It sucks, i know how excited you are and I was excited to. But I really cant put myself under this much financial stress just yet. It will be amazing, and I wish I could go I just unfortunately dont think it is possible this year” If she gets angry and cant respect that, then that really is not the trait of a good friend. dont let her push you in to going, there is no reason why you should put yourself behind in money and build up stress for this trip. I agree, you should have a relaxing gap year, save up, and then go when you are refreshed and ready!
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my best friend is in a year younger than me. we're super close and his friends say i make him 'soft-hearted.' they tell me i'm the only one he acts this way to. both his friends and my friends think we have a thing, when we actually don't... but somewhere along the line, i kinda started falling for him... the problem is, with us being so close, i know he likes this other girl in his grade. he's a tad obsessed. another thing is, if something happens, it can ruin our friendship.
the thing is, I don’t think it would ruin your friendship. You sound so close already and I mean sure, it wouldn’t be a friendship anymore, but it would be something more. If you like him and you found out he liked you back - would you think it was worth the risk with the chance it could become something more? Just hang out with him more, just you and him, let him get to know you and get to know him even better. Being alone will give you both time to just be yourselves around each other, he is honestly bound to fall for you if he hasnt already ! x
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I dont know if there's anything you can do or will have to say but is there anything I can do to get passed depression? Like lifestyle stuff or anything just so I don't let it take over my life?
I think it is so good that you want to, and are seeking a way to change something, and to not let the darkest parts of yourself over come the rest of you. I think that is honestly something to be proud of. In terms of change, I know people hate the sound of it, and often think it won’t help - but trust me it will, seeing a counsellor is so beneficial to help cope with depression. I don’t know if you know the saying, A problem shared is a problem halved, but it is often true, just talking to somebody about it not only gets it off your chest, but hearing your problems and sources of sadness and anger out loud helps you indentify what is actually wrong. People often think it sounds silly seeing somebody to help them, but honestly, i think asking or realising you might not be able to get through something on your own is one of the strongest things somebody can do. It isnt easy to ask for help, but its so brave. Other than that, I think everyday things like taking a walk, finding a place to sit where you’re looking out at something pretty, you dont have to concerntrate on anything, you can just feel relaxed and just take in your surroundings. It is a nice, simple way to focus on something else, rather than the racing thoughts we all often have in our heads. Seeing a friend, catching up for a coffee, having a laugh always lightens your mood - even if it is only breifly seeing friends and positive company is so beneficial!
I think doing things that just help you focus on something other than the thoughts in your head help. Reading a book, writing, listening to music with your eyes closed, drawing. Best of luck sweet heart, I just know you can do this. You’re such a strong, brave person, keep fighting for yourself - you’re a wonderful person, and you’re going to find yourself again, much love x
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i have my first exam in two days and i'm so so so so so scared. i work really hard at school but even my friends who don't care at all about their studies (i mean, they never work, never listen to the teachers) have better marks than me. i'm terrified; i've revised so much but i have the feeling that it is useless. it's really important for me to success at my finals and i just feel like i'm going to fail.
A big reason why people dont succeed with studying is they get stressed out, and it makes it so much easier to forget things when you’re in a negative and frantic mind frame. You need to first of all just calm yourself down, go have a bath, have a read of a book and cup of tea. When you go to study, write a list about the things you need to cover and have it by you. Take each thing on the list step by step. Light a candle, put on some music in the background (ed sheeran, angus and julia stone and passenger are good relaxing study music). Write out notes to revise really clearly in a appealing way.
A good idea can be writing out each point on a spearate piece of paper and colour coding them. If you write some on some little palm cards with a question on one side and the answer on the back - thats another good way just to test your knowledge. You can then walk round with them and just every now and then pull one out and just make sure you know it!
Finally, make sure you take a break! You have two days - in study time that is a lot of time so you can do it. Make sure you take a break by going for a walk, getting some fresh air. It really helps to have a change of scenery and some sun to focus when you go back inside.
Best of luck my dear! You will be fantastic - stop stressing lovely, calm down and just concerntrate xxx
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You seem like a really smart and social person! What kinda study are you doing/have you done?
Thank you so much! Well I’m still in school, but I’m planning on studying in senior, history, maths, DRAMA!, biology, buisness and I honestly havent decided what else! I love Drama and writing/ english best! Hope you’re have a great day xxx
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I feel so lonely. I am having a tough time right now and i have a big exam coming in a few months. I can't concentrate and is always having headache.
I think you need to just collect your thoughts together for a while, have a bath, make yourself a cup of tea, find a good book or get out a sketch pad and just draw anything. Write some of your thoughts down, the ones that are confusing you and making you feel down. Then create a list, a list of things you need to do in order from what needs to be done first. Then just sit and think about how you’re going to do each of the tasks you need to do. Just take it one step at a time.
In terms of studying - you have your exam in a few months so start collecting yourself now. Type your notes up, or write them. Put them on coloured paper and make them appealing to look at - it helps with remembering them more. I know you can do this, you’re just a little lost right now but you can get back on track. Go take a walk, refresh yourself. Have a panadol for your headache and just collect and gather your thoughts together x
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do you stand up for your friends, like even if it is against somebody who is a bully? :)
of course! I would feel terrible if somebody said something about my friend and I just stood there and let them say it. I would step in for sure, I wouldn’t yell or anything, I’d just explain how whatever it is isn’t true and that as their friend I know how they act and that isn’t something they would do?
A big part of friendship is having each others backs no matter what, so of course I’d be there for a friend, especially against a ‘bully’ xx
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whats, for you, an important trait or something you really value in a friendship? I always struggle to keep friends once i have them, and i thought maybe im looking for the wrong charactistics in people?
For me..
- I would say loyalty is a really big trait I value in friendship! I love feeling secure in a friendship, having somebody who you know is always there for you just makes you feel so much better. I think if somebody sticks up for you, defends you no matter who its against or what it is about - then thats a sign of a really good friend.
- Trust is another big one, I like being able to talk to my friends about how I’m feeling and be free of judgement and know they are going to be supportive and I can trust them with anything no matter what.
Sorry to hear you’ve had a hard time with friendships, try looking for some of those traits maybe? Just remmeber - you can find wonderful friends in people you wouldn’t expect x
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my mom used to live in australia when she was a kid. what's your favorite thing about austrailia?
aw really, how come she moved? :)
And my favourite thing.. ahh thats so tough! I love the beaches, the sand is always golden and the water is warm and blue. Thats really beautiful, but then the people here are so friendly and chilled out. It’s a lovely country x
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Have you ever been kissed? I haven't and i know that everyone has that special moment when things are meant to be but i feel like that will never happen to me. Advice? xx (LOVE!! your blog by the way)
I have! It was really lovely, I wasn’t dating the person at the time but they were a very close friend of mine. Honestly, I know you might feel like it won’t happen, but thats because the moment can be totally unexpected! It’s not necessarily something you plan, it is something that will normally just happen. Don’t stress about it my dear - it will happen, and if it’s with somebody special to you, it will be wonderful x
and thank you! I’m so glad you do xx
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I am in love with my bestfriend, but he has a gf. He used to like me before they got tgt, but i was in love with his bestfriend. Which i only told him about after he got tgt with his gf. Idk, i like his bestfriend but i'm starting to like him too..
Well for now this boy is taken, and it is hard to see somebody you really like with some one else but hes your best friend so you do really need to think of the best for him and whats going to make him happy at the moment. If you like this other guy, maybe concerntrate on getting to know him better and seeing if theres anything there that could go further as well? heaps of love xx
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How did you chose your URL name?
Well I’ve pretty much always had a blog to do with the ocean, beaches and calm, light pictures but I never really had a url that suited it that well.
So I was just typing different ones in, I knew the general words I wanted and I found this was free, and I really loved it - still do!
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you're tumblr is lovely, it always relaxes me
I’m so happy to hear that, thanks so much for your lovely words. I hope I can continue to create a space that does this for you x
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i am in love with your blog <3
thank you so much! You’re very kind, hope you’ve had a wonderful day xx
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My day really didn't last because I woke up really late, but I went to my grandparents' house and celebrated father's day with my family :)
Aw that sounds like such a lovely say! A sleep in sounds amazing, I’ve still got school for another week so I dont get to sleep in yet haha xx
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do you have a concert you're dying to watch?
not necessarily a concert but a music festival! Coachella would be absolutely amazing, thats definitely something I dream about going to x
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How old are you, if you don't mind me asking. You just seem so mature and well-mannered
I’m 15! And thank you so much, that is such a compliment. I hope you’re having a lovely day - you’re very kind x
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